Why did Jesus have to die on the cross? This question has been on the minds of many since the beginning of the church. Theologians discuss and debate the reasons the crucifixion was necessary. Some try to explain it away, saying that God the Father could have chosen another way to forgive us that didn’t involve Jesus’ self-sacrifice. Modern atheists disdain the death of Christ as “child abuse” and ask how a Father could put His Son through that kind of agony. It is definitely an important question.
Here in Matthew 26:36-46 we do not see an answer to this question, but we do see that Jesus states that His death is necessary. As He faces the cross, He prays to His Father to let “the cup” pass from Him. The imagery of “the cup” refers to the cup of God’s wrath poured out on those who rebel against Him. It is the full judgment of God, the infinite King who has been infinitely wronged by people whom He created. The prophetic pictures are not pleasant, and they served and still serve as a warning about the fearsome judgment that awaits those who reject God and His chosen Savior.
Jesus asks that He be spared this wrath. Since He was fully God and fully man, He knew just what this judgment would entail. While Jesus was willing to sacrifice Himself for our sins, that doesn’t mean He looked forward to how taking our judgment would affect Him and His relationship with His Father. He asked if there was any other way to pay the price for humanity’s sin, and by His own words acknowledged that there was not. He could not escape the cross while at the same time providing redemption for us.
There are many theological observations that could be made about why this was true, and other Scriptures deal with some of the reasons. But I think sometimes we try so hard to figure out the divine “why” that we miss the major thrust of this passage: Jesus was willing to go to the cross to fulfill the Father’s will so that He could save us from our sins. He did this willingly, despite the prospects. He chose to give His life for those who were unworthy of His sacrifice so He could make us worthy through faith in Him. Here in Gethsemane Jesus shows His own strength, love, and mercy in His conversation with His Father.
I believe if there were any way our redemption could have been gained without Jesus going to the cross God would have done it. Even that statement, however, betrays a human prejudice that Jesus’ death had to be the only way, not just the best way, for God to require it and Jesus to offer His life. The biggest issue in understanding the “why” of the cross is that our minds are not God’s mind. We have the capacity to understand everything God wants us to know, but not the capacity to understand things it is impossible for us to know. That is why we have to trust Jesus and accept His Word on this.
It all comes down to faith. If we believe in Jesus, we will trust that all He does is what is right. Our faith and trust in Him brings us to the place where we acknowledge Him as the Lord, and where we can receive forgiveness and redemption through His shed blood. Gethsemane is hard to see, but in it are the seeds of what makes Jesus’ sacrifice so amazing, and it humbles us to see what He suffered to make us right with God. We may never fully comprehend the “why,” but the fact of redemption changes our lives for all eternity.